Magcine (#883) 06-04-15

While visiting Macon GA, I walked around the downtown area with a camera. Surprise, surprise! Magcine stepped out of the small woman's boutique where she works and took a break. As I approached, she made eye contact and smiled, all the encouragement that I needed.

First, the name, Magcine. It took me a good 90 seconds to get this right. It sounds like Maxine, she didn't say. I think that she was a bit frustrated by my inability to get it right, so I didn't press her on the derivation.

Magcine is originally from Jersey City, but spent a good part of her life in Hardeeville, SC. She moved to Macon four years ago, and is ambivalent about the move. I asked her where Hardeeville was. “When you cross the Savannah (Eugene Talmadge) Bridge into South Carolina, The 'Welcome to South Carolina' sign is in Hardeeville.

I liked the harmony between her hair color and the gold tooth.

Bob

Alice (#882) 06-03-15

I met two other photographers who wanted to follow me around, to see how I approach strangers. This puts on the pressure. So we arranged to meet at Buddy Brew Coffee, my new favorite light spot. I got there first. My favorite (small) black wall was available, and three young blonde ladies were nearby. I was so tempted to approach them, but I dutifully waited for Gen and Nora. Just as they arrived, another young woman sat on a couch right in front of 'my' spot. Drat! But I reasoned; If a woman stepped into Richard Avedon's studio and sat down, surely she expected to be photographed. So I approached Alice with that mentality. As I was finishing my spiel, she said, “You've asked the right person.” Nice!

Alice has lived most of her life in Ft. Lauderdale. She just finished her junior year at the University of Miami. Her major is Marine Biology, but during the past year, she decided that nursing was for her. Specifically maternity work. The U of M has a program in which a B.S. in nursing can obtained in one year if you already have a bachelor’s degree in something. Hence, the best course for Alice is to finish her degree in Marine Biology and then enter the nursing program.

Her real passion is midwifery. Alice is visiting a friend in Sarasota for the summer while she attends birthing classes (she greatly prefers Sarasota to the Florida east coast). My friend Gen spoke up, she has a friend who is a midwife and is looking for two students to mentor. Alice snapped to attention, sat up straight, and got out pen and paper. For the next couple of minutes they exchanged demographic data, and Alice vowed to contact the midwife.

Boy, I hope something good comes of that. This project creates spinoffs; when people get together, unexpected relationships can occur.

Bob

Rob and David (#881) 06-02-15

Two fellows walked out of the coffee shop in a very animated discussion. They took seats nearby as I got the camera ready. The topic was professional basketball, especially the Cleveland Cavaliers and LaBron James. The tone sounded argumentative, but they were actually agreeing about some things. Not being a big roundball fan, I summoned up as much faux interest as possible and approached them.

Rob and David were pleasant, and happy to oblige me. The real topic of conversation was the firing of Chicago Bulls coach, Tom Thibodeau, even though he had won almost 2/3 of the games over the past five years. They think that the bulls' owner is crazy.

Rob

Rob

David

David

Both work for Inlanta Mortgage Co. Their business has been very brisk lately. They were impressed that I read a newspaper article saying that over 50% of home sales in our area are for cash. But even with a minority being financed, Rob and David are doing well. They are both from Philadelphia, and they KNEW each other in Philadelphia.

“You two have known each other that long and you're still friends?”

David, laughing, “Yeah. Amazing isn't it? (Eyes rolling)”

Maybe Philadelphia really is the 'City of Brotherly Love.”

Bob

Julia (#880) 06-01-15

As I sat outside of the coffee shop, Pastry Art, Julia walked in. Her look was so compelling that I dared not miss her leaving, so I went inside and intercepted her. As she waited for a latte, I explained my intention, and she was game. I told her that I would wait outside.

As she emerged, there was the latte in one hand and a pastry in the other. After a brief conversation I asked her to stand in the doorway, which I propped open with my foot as I shot. I asked her to remove the sunglasses, but her hands were occupied; I reached up and removed them. After photographing, I carefully put them back on.

Julia moved to Sarasota at age 11. She graduated from Booker High, a school specializing in the arts.

“Are you an artist?”

“Yep, musician.”

She sings and plays guitar. Bar tending is her 'day job'.

“I worked for seven years at the Gator Club, and seven years at the Five O'clock Club.”

“Wait a minute, that's too many years. You're not that old.”

“I started earlier than I should have, working in clubs.”

“Well, at least you never consumed alcoholic beverages there.”

“Oh no (eyes looking up).”

Bob

Newspaper article (#879) 05-31-15

Several weeks ago, I spoke with a stranger when a second woman walked up. I got a few shots of both, with minimal interaction with the second. I gave them both cards.

Two weeks ago the second woman, Katy, contacted me and said that she was a reporter for the Sarasota Herald Tribune, our main newspaper. On May 19 she interviewed me and followed me for a while as I did my thing. on May 26, an article about me, and 100 Strangers took up 2/3 of the front page and spilled over to page 6. The entire text and a 2 minute video is here:

www.heraldtribune.com/article/20150526/ARTICLE/150529793/...

This is my "Fifteen Minutes of Fame." :-)

Bob

John and Kathryn (#878) 05-31-15

I sipped coffee in front of Pastry Art, awaiting my chance. A couple sitting nearby were having an animated conversation and seemed to be 'in the moment.' So I approached them, and as I gave my spiel, the lady began to smile -a good sign. But when I finished, they just sat staring and said nothing. That was a very long three to four seconds. Finally I looked at John and raised my eyebrows. He shrugged and said “I guess so”, and, of course, Kathryn followed suit. Whew!

John was taciturn, and every phrase was measured. He was born in Sarasota and graduated from Cardinal Mooney High school. Getting his law degree at Stetson University, he now practices case law in Sarasota.

Kathryn is a Physical Therapist at Sarasota Memorial Hospital. Originally she was from Orlando.

“Happy to get out of Orlando?”

“Yes, very.”

Disney has altered Central Florida so much that I feel sorry for families that have been there for generations.

Bob

Melody (#877) 05-30-15

Melody and her husband, Andrew, have the Edy's Ice Cream concession on Main Street. She lived in Illinois for much of her life. In 1988 she went to Jamaica and stayed for three years. There she met Andrew.

I commented that Jamaicans in the U.S. Have the 'don't worry, be happy' upbeat attitude, but in Jamaica people seem unhappy. She disagreed. “Jamaicans are a wonderfully generous and happy people.” Americans see locals in the tourist areas, a different population from the countryside.

Melody and Andrew had an Edy's store in Tarpon Springs for 12 years. Edy's used to carry frozen yogurt, but sales dropped off after nine eleven and it was discontinued. She conjectured that with world events so uncertain, people were less concerned with diet and went for real ice cream.

The allegedly ideal location for their store would be St. Armand's Key. But the rents are so high, and traffic so abysmal, that they prefer a more laid back spot. Then she went into some stupid employee stories – that is ultimately why they run the store themselves. I told her about an episode in a Dairy Queen. My wife ordered the smallest Blizzard. Accidentally the employee made the next size up. When I pointed out the error, he shrugged, threw the Blizzard in the garbage, and made the smaller one. Melody howled. Yep, that's why she and Andrew run the store themselves.

Bob

Ryan (#876) 05-29-15

Another accommodating potential stranger sitting in a perfect spot. Thank you God! And Ryan instantly understood the project and was very willing.

Ryan was born in Germany, but on a U.S. Military base, so he has no accent. As an army 'brat' his formative years were spent in several locations, including time in Virginia and Maryland. But his main memories are of Columbus Ga, when his father was stationed in Ft. Benning. His father now lives in Orlando, and his mother in Bradenton.

Ryan is a chef at the local Ritz Carlton resort. He likes the job and is appreciative of the opportunity. But his goal (soon) is to head to Los Angeles. He wants to be a film director. Since age 10 he has been involved in amateur film production. And he thinks that his quality time with Ritz Carlton will serve him well. Ryan works with quality people and has developed a background in logistics, useful for a director. He is well aware that many wanabees in L.A. Don't make it, but it is a dream; “I have to give it a shot.”

When he stood by my new favorite wall, he immediately assumed these poses. I would call them cinematic.

Bob

Jillian and Friends (#875) 05-28-15

Three young ladies were chatting and laughing by my new haunt, Buddy Brew Coffee. Had I met them a mile away, I would want to transport them to exactly where they were sitting: good light and neutral background. Minimal post processing, works for me!

As I explained the project, they immediately 'got it.' Jillian said, “Oh, sort of like 'Humans of New York.'” I said “I wish. I don't have the guts to ask the questions that Brandon Stanton does.” She said that she had his book. So do I.

Jillian

Jillian

Well, my desired 'character shots' weren't going to happen. All three are into fashion and are very conscious of posing and glamor. I had my work cut out. The three went to high school together, in nearby Bradenton. Jillian currently lives in Chattanooga and works in a woman clothing store. She stated the name but it meant nothing to me.

Cami

Cami

Cami has designed a line of woman's clothing. “Oh, is it sold in Jillian's store?” Laughing, “No, that's my next goal. Kelly is 'in transition'. Actually that is a euphemism for unemployed. I prefer 'in transition.' She said that she would like to be a stylist. Cami spoke up and said that Kelly would be perfect, she has a good eye for art and color.

Kelly

Kelly

All three liked 100 Strangers and took cards.

Bob

Nolan (#874) 05-27-15

I stepped into the coffee shop, Pastry Art, to get a cup of Joe prior to stranger hunting. Pastry Art has had some employee turnover, so there are a few new faces behind the counter. One young fellow commented on my camera – the Olympus OM-D E-M5 (it took me a long time to learn that by heart). What kind of camera is that? is it film? etc. So I explained the camera and said, “Guess what I like to photograph?” So a minute later he was obliging me by standing in the doorway while I clicked away.

His name is Nolan.

“Is there a 'D' on the end?”

“No, it is not like Roland.”

Nolan is from Chattanooga and says that the weather there is more mild than you might think. He and a friend took a trip to Oregon, but Nolan would up staying for two years. He worked at a Starbucks at an airport.

“Oh, so it was the same kind of work as here.”

“Yeah, it's that the coffee cost twice as much there.”

He has been in Sarasota for a month and a half, working at Pastry Art the whole time. There is a sign on the door, “Baristas wanted.” Nature of the business I guess.

After several clicks, I showed him the images. For some reason, he likes keeping his mouth open; in most images his mouth was open wider than this. He laughed and said, “Oh Jeez, I look stoned.”

He did.

Bob

Nicole (#873) 05-26-15

I saw Nicole at the Farmer's Market, in direct sunlight. I waited a bit as she ambled along and then chose my spot to meet her. There are so many interesting people at the Market, but the backgrounds are all busy and contrasty. There is no good place nearby. So I try to pick a location with acceptable light and be resigned to more post processing than I like.

Nicole was rather surprised when I approached her, but became a 100 Strangers fan over the next couple of minutes. She is from Utica, NY, and did her schooling there. Now she is a Child Protection Officer. She lives in Orlando and commutes to work in Kissimmee.

“Isn't that a rather long commute?”

“I just live with it, the job is worth it.

She often goes to a Farmer's Market in Winter Park, an immediate Orlando neighbor. Nicole likes the Sarasota one better and was glad that she visited for the weekend. She took my card and is interested in getting a copy of the photos.

Bob

Louise and Jerry (#872) 05-25-15


 

Louise and Jerry are Brits. They lived in London and moved to Tampa seven years ago. Louise is retired, a retired housewife. I'm not sure what that means for Jerry. He works for a factory that manufactures “soda pop.” I was not aware that any major soda brands were produced in Tampa. Turns out they aren't. He makes soda for store brands, like Publix. I never knew that store brand soda was produced in separate factories from Coke, Pepsi, etc. Isn't 100 Strangers a great learning experience?

I have been impressed by the number of local residents with British accents.

Me: “How do so many Brits find Southwest Florida?”

Jerry: “It begins with Disney. People from overseas go to Disney and later tour the rest of Florida.”

Me: “But after a Disney vacation, who can afford to travel anymore?”

Jerry: “Well, you come back 20 years later when the kids are grown.”

Me: “Ahh...”

Louise: “Once here, you just cannot return to the constantly gloomy days of England.”

Makes sense to me.

Bob.

Phil (#871) 05-24-15

While I was interacting with yesterday's stranger, David, Phil walked up to inspect the action. So I immediately recruited him. No Problem. For a while, Phil, David, Katy (the reporter) and I had a round robin conversation.

But he told me that he likes to say “No.” “It gets a reaction.” Phil drove a bus in Manhattan for 30 years, and has seen a lot. Like when a rider said, “I'd like to get off here', Phil would say “No” and watch his startled reaction. Then Phil would pull the bus over a block later and say, “Sir, I have found a safe place for you to step off. Have a nice day.” I guess that those are the games you play when you have a lot of time on your hands.

I asked Phil how he was able to maintain any kind of schedule, driving in New York traffic. “Simple, you drive like a maniac.”

Phil was very outgoing, and could not understand why anyone would have a tough time talking to strangers. He should have the camera.

Bob

David (#870) 05-23-15

OK, Katy (the Sarasota Herald Tribune reporter) and I walked along, her small Canon camera was on a tripod that was folded, effectively a monopod. As David came out of a door, he immediately sidestepped us and fell behind. Then he quickly passed us and said “I thought that was a crutch. If I had known it was that thing, I wouldn't have stepped aside for you.” I didn't quite know how to take that, but when in doubt, ask for a portrait. I said, “Do you know why she has that? I ask strangers for a photograph and she is making a video of me doing it. Can I meet you and take your photograph?” He looked at me sideways, kept walking, and said “OK.”

He stopped at an outdoor piano, sat, and began to play – and intermittently sing. His piano skills were considerable, the singing, not so much.

He has worked with a person at Fogartyville, a community media and art center. For the next several minutes, while playing, he had a stream of consciousness monolog that bordered on a rant. All topics music and local politics were covered. I was overwhelmed by material and couldn't write most of it down. Basically he was put off at the world for not being more recognized for his talents. I kept asking for a pause so that I could photograph. Daniel gave me nanosecond opportunities. For the first time, my Olympus autofocus let me down. He did play with feeling, and I think that the posted image reflects that.

Bob

Kasia (#869) 05-22-15

This was the second stop, being followed by a Sarasota Herald Tribune reporter. We began to walk by the Whole Foods outdoor eating area when I saw Kasia and made an immediate about-face. As I explained our mission, she began smiling – she 'got it.' I asked if anyone ever misspelled her name - “Oh yeah. Some people confuse it with the cereal.”

It's Polish. Kasia was born in Krakow and moved to the U.S. At age six. She has no accent. Her parents also live in the U.S. And have plenty of accent. Most of the rest of her family is in Poland. She visits occasionally and misses the homeland. Still, she likes Sarasota except for the heat. Join the club.

Kasia works in sales for ATT.

“Oh, are you the one who spams my e-mail, or the one who cold calls me at suppertime?”

“No, I don't do those things. I am in direct customer sales.”

At least she didn't get offended.

I showed her this shot on the camera LCD and asked if she'd prefer one without the cigarette. “No, I'm a smoker. That's who I am.” We are now Facebook friends.

Bob



Dan (#868) 05-21-15

The next four strangers will be a little different. A reporter, Katy, from the Sarasota Herald Tribune interviewed me, and then followed me around with video equipment. So when I introduced myself to a stranger and made 'the ask', Katy quickly explained that I was being followed for a website video. Katy met me a few weeks ago – I photographed her, of course (#607).

As Katy and I passed Smokin' Joe's Bar, Dan was having a cigar break al fresco. He had lived in Seattle. I noted that most people around here were from Ohio/Michigan, or New York/New Jersey. Seattle to Sarasota is not a common migration path. Many years ago Dan moved here to be close to his ailing dad. They were together for 20 years.

Dan loves Pastry Art, my favorite haunt. A few months ago he was in an auto accident and had one arm in a sling. So he learned to hold a bag with pastries and a cup of coffee in one hand – a useful skill.

He lit up his cigar and told me not to photograph him with it. His wife would be upset.

“Do you think that she cannot smell it on your breath?”

“I brush my teeth before she sees me.”

“Oh.”

They have been married for 10 years. Two years ago they opened up a salon salon in the nearby Rosemary District. That is an up and coming neighborhood that had been neglected for decades.

Bob

Thomas and Lucy, (#867) 05-20-15

Thomas is Hungarian. He likes Sarasota, but thinks that there should be more cultural activities for young people. I told him that I used to live in Venice. He rolled his eyes and said, "You would be young there (67), I would REALLY be young." Thomas is well acquainted with Cafe Clasico, where we were; he met Lucy there. And he remembers when it was the Palm Cafe, and before that, Sarasota Bookstore. Thomas reminisced about the "Mom and Pop" bookstore, and private bookstores in general. Their future does not appear bright.

He is a realtor. I said, "Oh, do you sell these condos( waving my arm by new highrises under construction)." he said yes, but that most of them had already been sold, for up to $2,000,000 each where there is a bay view.

Lucy said that I had never heard of her birthplace, Cape Verde. I said that of course I had, a group of islands off Africa. She seemed surprised. I told her that she was the first female from Cape Verde that I had met that was not a hurricane. In Florida we are very cognizant of the "Cape Verde Season", where tropical depressions form off of Africa and sweep across the Atlantic, strengthening into hurricanes.

Lucy used to work at Cafe Clasico, but now she works at Brian's Seafood, north of town. She is my second stranger who works there. Lucy wanted to keep sunglasses on. She had partied hard the night before and was concerned about the appearance of her eyes. They look fine.

Bob

Kelsey and Alex (#866) 19-05-15

Kelsey and Alex walked my way and I was ready. But they suddenly turned into a spice store and I had to bide my time. A fellow tied his bulldog to a pole right next to me and disappeared into a restaurant. The beautiful dog was rather ambitious and I had to move – I almost lost interest. But when they walked out and I explained the project, they were more than happy to be a part.

Kelsey and Alex are from Tampa, visiting the area for a day. So far, they are impressed. Kelsey teaches English as a second language. She speaks some Russian, but is not allowed to speak it in class. If the primary language is used at all, students end up 'translating' everything, and never learn how to 'think' in English. Actually, I'm not sure that I can think in English. She likes this challenge, but doesn't look at this as her calling.

Alex works in finance. Not for a brokerage house, but at an electrical supply company. Among other things, he does collections.

“Oh, are you the 'enforcer' for delinquent accounts?”

Kelsey, “Yeah, that's why he has these guns (squeezes Alex's bicep).”

Alex, “No, I haven't had to resort to violence yet (rolls eyes).”

They both seemed to enjoy the encounter and took my card.

Bob

Jess and Tucker (#865) 05-18-15

Jess and Tucker had the audacity to sip cups of Java in front of MY coffee shop. So I did my thing, and they were happy to be photographed.

Jess (Jessica) graduated from local Booker High School, the one partially devoted to visual and performing arts. Since 2009 she has performed with the Modern Ethos dance troupe. http://movingethos.org/index.html

The group will be performing in Sarasota this July. The venue will be the tiny Urbanite theater, which will be modified to seat 35 (thirty five!) for the performances. Jess agrees that dancers not colliding will be a challenge. I immediately bought a ticket for the first performance.

Tucker owns her own landscaping business. I was intrigued by the intricate tattoo on her left arm. She got it in New Zealand for the equivalent of $300. It is art of the Mauri, the indigenous people of new Zealand. Each line represents an event in Tucker's life.

Bob

Mike (#864) 05-17-15

Mike was sitting with a young lady who shook her head “no.” Mike shook his head “yes” at that, I guess she was really having a bad day. But Mike was not, and was glad to participate. Both of them are musicians in a band called 'Pleasures.' She is a guitar player and vocalist, Mike plays drums. When I showed him my Photostream, he pointed to Greg (yesterday's stranger) and said that Greg was in the same band. Quite a coincidence as these were on different days.

Mike was born in Sarasota and graduated from Sarasota High School. After getting a degree in Music, he taught for two years at SHS and one year at Booker High. But teaching was not for Mike, so he quit to join this band. They are arranging their second tour, 5,000 miles in a month. Their first tour was over 8,000 miles. It was modestly successful, they came home with a little money after expenses. The financial uncertainty doesn't seem to bother him.

I told him about a book that I just read – it seems germane: The Crossroads of Should and Must.” Should is what other people and society suggest you do, vs must, what your heart says to do.

Bob