I had just been turned down by a stranger, in front of my favorite coffee shop, no less. While licking my wounds, a barista, Joel (https://www.flickr.com/photos/bobdeinphoto/15016197129/) came out and spoke with a man sitting alone. He was clearly outgoing, and worked somewhere nearby. When Joel left, I made my move. Andrew was very outgoing, and we had a long conversation about the local homeless situation.